Whether you’ve recently lost a loved one or they passed away a few years ago, their birthday can be a particularly difficult day. What was once an occasion that was filled with happiness is now filled with a whole lot of missing them. But writing out a card with happy heavenly birthday wishes is a great way to celebrate their life and help you feel closer to them.
We also understand that it can be difficult to find the right words, and that’s why we’ve come up with some inspiration for heavenly birthday messages to inspire you.
And if you’re looking for somewhere to jot down your message, we’ve got a selection of lovely designs in our birthday card range:
Simple heavenly birthday wishes
Not everyone wants to write out a long message but still finds the action of writing a birthday card helpful, and that’s okay. For those who would prefer to keep their message on the shorter side, here are some suggestions:
- I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday, you’re so so missed.
- Thinking of you, especially today on your birthday, wish I could be celebrating with you.
- I can’t even put into words how much I’m missing you. Wishing you a happy birthday in heaven.
- While you may not be here to celebrate your birthday with us, you’re still in all of our thoughts.
- I feel so blessed that you were a part of my life. Hope you’re having the best time in heaven.
- Nothing can ever fill the gap you left but knowing you’re at peace eases it a bit. Sending my warmest birthday wishes to the sky.
Lovely wishes to say a happy heavenly birthday to your mum
Mums are the people who brought us into this world which is just one of the many reasons why losing them is so hard. So, if you’re wanting to wish your lovely mum a happy birthday, here are some heavenly birthday wishes we’ve come up with:
- Honestly, life is so strange without you mum. I miss you each and every day. Hope you’re having the best time celebrating in heaven with Grandma and Grandad.
- Even though you can’t be here with us, we’ll be having a glass of wine in your honour. Happy heavenly birthday mum!
- I miss your voice and the way you used to laugh when one of us did something stupid. Hope you’re having a good time up in heaven on your birthday.
- Heaven really has gained an angel with you mum. I’ll never forget just how much love you spread, happy birthday.
- Your presence really did light up a room mum and I’m sure it’s the same in heaven. We all miss you so much, love you forever and always.
- Not having you around is never going to get easier, but I’ll always treasure the time that we did get together. Hope you can see everyone celebrating your special day from up in heaven.
We’ve also got a selection of happy heavenly Mother’s Day wishes for you to have a read through.
How to wish a happy heavenly birthday to your dad
For anyone who has lost their dad, we know it can be difficult to wish them a happy birthday when you can’t celebrate with them. In case you need a little bit of inspiration, here are our caring birthday wishes you can send to your dad on his special day:
- You really were the backbone of this family and supported me through thick and thin. I really miss you, happy heavenly birthday dad!
- Dad, hope you’re having as much of a party up in heaven as you did when you were here with us. Happy Birthday.
- It’s your birthday today dad, I wish you could see how much we’ve all grown up. Happy [insert age] birthday, we miss you loads!
- Today, on your birthday, we really treasure all the moments we spent together along with the memories made. I love and miss you so much dad.
- With it being your special day today, I just wanted to say how much we miss you and thank you for shaping me into the person I am today. Heaven is lucky to have you.
- Happy Birthday dad, I’ll never forget everything you did for me and how much you went out of your way for us all. I know you wouldn’t want us to be sad so instead we’ll make sure to have a few laughs in your memory.
And if you’re looking to write out a card for your dad ahead of Father’s Day, we’ve got a guide filled with happy heavenly Father’s Day wishes.
Sweet happy birthday wishes to someone in heaven
Continuing some of the typical birthday traditions is a nice way to honour the memory of a loved one. If you’re still keen to write out a card and celebrate their big day, check out our ideas for sweet happy birthday wishes to someone in heaven:
- It’s hard to not be upset that you’re not here with us to celebrate your birthday. I miss you so much, but I know that you’re looking down on me and I’ll be thinking about all the best memories we shared today!
- We all still talk about you and miss you so much and even more so today. Happy birthday [insert name], hope you’re having fun celebrations up there in heaven!
- Happy birthday! I can’t lie, it’s strange to be celebrating your birthday without you. However, I couldn’t let the occasion pass by without getting you a card.
- Today you get to celebrate your birthday in heaven for the first time! Obviously, I’m pretty jealous I don’t get to party with you myself, but I know wherever you are you’ll have a drink in hand.
- Yay, it’s your birthday! Remember how we had those birthday traditions? Don’t worry, I’m still going to do them every year, just for you.
- Instead of writing out your birthday card at the last minute like I normally did, today I’m going to take my time to cherish all our favourite memories together.
Happy heavenly birthday wishes for grandparents
Aside from your parents, your grandparents were likely the first people you’d turn to for wisdom and support. That’s why it’s always lovely to honour their memory and continue celebrating their special day:
- Happy birthday grandma/grandad, I still can’t believe you’re gone but I know you’re at peace now.
- You really knew how to make birthdays extra special so, as a family, we’re going to try do the same for you. Happy birthday, grandma/grandad!
- Even though you’re not here to blow out the candles, we’re still all going to come together to celebrate your birthday. Missing you loads, grandma/grandad.
- Wishing you all the best on your heavenly birthday, grandma/grandad.
- Whilst I wish we could have spent another birthday together, I’m very grateful for all the years that we did get to celebrate you!
- Grandma/grandad, I know you wouldn’t want us to be sad, so I’ll be thinking of only happy thoughts and memories about you on your birthday today.
Heavenly birthday messages for siblings
Our siblings understand us on a level like no one else, and that means that losing one often feels like losing a part of ourselves. If you’ve sadly lost yours and you’re looking for a touching posthumous birthday message to celebrate them, here are a few ideas:
- Missing my partner in crime a little extra today. Happy birthday bro/ sis, hope you’re busy celebrating up there.
- Today I’ll honour the incredible person that you are and all the love you brought into everyone’s lives. Happy heavenly birthday, miss you tons.
- Happy heavenly birthday to my favourite brother/sister. Today I’ll remember all the love, laughter, and inside jokes we shared.
- Cheers to you bro/sis. I promise to celebrate your birthday today and every birthday as long as I’m here.
- Life is a whole lot more boring without you here bro/sis, but I hope you’re having plenty of fun up there.
- Happiest of birthdays to my wonderful sibling. Even though you’re not here, today’s still all about you.
First birthday in heaven messages
When you lose a loved one and the first birthday without them here rolls around, it can be especially difficult. But while you can’t celebrate with them, you can certainly celebrate their wonderful life:
- Happy birthday in heaven. This year has been the hardest, but I promise to celebrate you today.
- We’re missing you today (just like every day). Happy first birthday up in the clouds.
- Today I’ll be thinking about all the amazing times we shared together. Hope you’re celebrating up there and looking down on us.
- While you’re not here to celebrate, I promise to mark the occasion for you with cake, balloons, and plenty of fun. Happy birthday in heaven, miss you always.
- The brightest star in the sky. Happy first birthday in heaven, shine bright tonight and I’ll give you a wave.
- The first without you was always going to be the hardest, but I won’t let it stop me from celebrating your lovely life. Happy birthday, miss you more than ever.
Funny heavenly birthday messages
If you and your loved one had a relationship filled with fun, this doesn’t have to change just because they’re no longer here. Why not pay tribute to all the hilarious times you shared by writing a message with a touch of humour?
- Heaven must be a little bit livelier with a party animal like you to shake things up.
- Happy heavenly birthday. Hope you’re not causing too much trouble up there…
- I promise to celebrate exactly how you would’ve done today: plenty of cake, a wild night out, and a sore head tomorrow. Happy heavenly birthday, I’m doing a whole lot of missing you down here.
- Today is still all about you, and I promise to never ever let anyone forget it.
- If you shine as bright in heaven as you did on earth, I bet you’ve made a thousand friends already. Happy heavenly birthday, you better be celebrating in style…
- I’m sure your heavenly birthday parties are the talk of the town. Have fun celebrating up there, and I promise to celebrate down here.
Touching heavenly birthday quotes
Sometimes, it can feel impossible to find a way to put your true feelings and emotions into words. Not to worry, you can still wish them a happy birthday in heaven with the wise words of others. Below are some of our favourite touching heavenly birthday quotes:
- “Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.” – Eskimo Proverb
- “What is there to do when people die, people so dear and rare, but bring them back by remembering.” – May Sarton
- “There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart.” – Mahatma Gandhi
- “We never lose our loved ones. They accompany us; they don’t disappear from our lives. We are merely in different rooms.” – Paulo Coelho
- “In life, we loved you dearly, in death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place, no one else will ever fill.” – Unknown
- “If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart. I’ll stay there forever.” – Winnie the Pooh
When it comes to writing heavenly birthday wishes, we know it’s no easy task, but hopefully our ideas have helped you out. And if the anniversary of your loved one’s passing is coming up, we’ve pulled together some grief anniversary messages too. These are perfect for expressing your own feelings or writing a touching message to a family member or friend.
Know someone who’s currently grieving the loss of a loved one? We’ve got a guide on what to write in a sympathy card to help you find the right words. And for even more tips on what to write, just hop over to the thortful blog.