{"id":9522,"date":"2022-06-13T10:27:13","date_gmt":"2022-06-13T09:27:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/?p=9522"},"modified":"2022-06-13T14:43:58","modified_gmt":"2022-06-13T13:43:58","slug":"dads-approval","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/dads-approval\/","title":{"rendered":"The optimum time for gaining dad\u2019s approval"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all been there \u2013 the sweaty palms and excited butterflies that inevitably come when bringing a new partner home for the first time to meet the parents. But a lot of us have also been in the position where even after that initial meeting, it\u2019s taken quite a while for our parents to come round to liking our beloveds too!<\/p>\n<p>We wanted to find out just how protective and cautious British dads are when it comes to their children\u2019s new partners, so we surveyed dads of children who are married\/in a relationship to reveal how long it takes on average to get the seal of approval.<\/p>\n<p>We also found some insider intel on what dads think are the most important things new partners should do to impress them!<\/p>\n<h2>The average time it takes for dads to approve of our partners<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Dads-approval-graphic-2.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9528 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Dads-approval-graphic-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1921\" height=\"2534\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a question for the ages that many a young person has muttered in frustration: how long is it going to take for my parents to actually like my new partner? We surveyed British dads to find out the average time it takes to approve of their children\u2019s partners and spouses &#8211; and the answers are quite revealing!<\/p>\n<p>25% of British dads approved of their child\u2019s new partner right away, while another 4% have never approved! It also turns out that it takes an average of 3 months to gain dad\u2019s approval of your partner, so if you\u2019ve just started dating, encourage them round to visit asap to get the process started!<\/p>\n<h2>What do dads love and hate most in our partners?<\/h2>\n<p>So, now we know how long it could take for our dads to like our partners, what exactly are the qualities that will make them go from tolerated to absolutely loved by the whole family?<\/p>\n<p>Well, we got the inside track with the percentage of dads who approve or disapprove of each behaviour &#8211; so now you can know whether your partner is likely to be a hit or a miss at home!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Dads-approval-graphic-1.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9534\" src=\"https:\/\/blog-content.thortful.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Dads-approval-graphic-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1921\" height=\"4759\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Things your partner should do<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Show respect to your family &#8211; 24%<\/li>\n<li>Be family orientated\/take good care of their own family &#8211; 24%<\/li>\n<li>Take the time to build a relationship with your dad &#8211; 18%<\/li>\n<li>Be there during tough times &#8211; 17%<\/li>\n<li>Show desire to learn more about you &#8211; 15%<\/li>\n<li>Bond with your mum\/dad\u2019s partner &#8211; 12%<\/li>\n<li>Offer to help out whenever they come over to the house &#8211; 11%<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Things your partner definitely shouldn\u2019t do<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Be disrespectful &#8211; 26%<\/li>\n<li>Have a bad attitude &#8211; 22%<\/li>\n<li>Be fake-nice &#8211; 19%<\/li>\n<li>Forget their manners &#8211; 15%<\/li>\n<li>Be a know-it-all &#8211; 14%<\/li>\n<li>Not speak to your family &#8211; 14%<\/li>\n<li>Get drunk &#8211; 13%<\/li>\n<li>Swear in front of your dad &#8211; 13%<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How many protective dads are there in the UK?<\/h2>\n<p>37% of the dads we surveyed said that they were happy with who their child is in a relationship with, and another 22% said their child\u2019s partner\/spouse went out of their way to build a good relationship with them \u2013 props to them for putting in the grind to win their in-law&#8217;s approval!<\/p>\n<p>However, nearly 1 in 5 of dads said that if they didn\u2019t like their child\u2019s spouse\/partner, they would tell them straight, with a further 16% claiming to have already done so with partners of their children.<\/p>\n<p>Some dads are even more protective, with 14% of them claiming that if they didn\u2019t like their child\u2019s spouse or partner, they would forbid them from seeing each other, while another 11% saying that they would try to split up the relationship!<\/p>\n<p>Some dads are also very traditional in their outlook, with nearly 1 in 5 saying that they would like their child\u2019s partner to ask for their permission before marriage, and another 17% have given monetary gifts to their children\u2019s partners for looking after them.<\/p>\n<p>A further 12% of dads claimed that their child\u2019s spouse\/partner actually bought them a gift to try to win them over \u2013 so why not give this a bash with one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thortful.com\/cards\/fathers-day\/funny\">funny Father\u2019s Day cards<\/a> to really get them chortling? You can even throw in one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thortful.com\/gifts\">gifts<\/a> too, if you\u2019re feeling really eager to make a good impression!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all been there \u2013 the sweaty palms and excited butterflies that inevitably come when bringing a new partner home for the first time to meet the parents. 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