And if you\u2019ve been searching for the perfect <\/strong>Valentine\u2019s Day card<\/strong><\/a> to express your love, browse our range below: <\/strong><\/p>\n Jelly Armchair<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div> The Girl Next Draw<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div> I AM NOT AN ARTIST<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div> Pickled Post<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div> Hannah Jayne Lewin<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div> la la la Designs<\/p><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n Then, if you\u2019re hoping to impress your partner through the written word, delve into our blog on romantic Valentine’s Day quotes<\/a> and pick one to include in your card! Or, you could read our fun guide on how to say I love you in different languages<\/a> if you\u2019re looking to really wow your other half.<\/p>\n When we talk about love language types, we don\u2019t just mean French or Italian. While certainly attractive accents, the \u20185 love languages\u2019 is a theory that refers to the different ways we express affection to our other half; not necessarily the language in which we do so.<\/p>\n If you were to sit and people-watch in a caf\u00e9 or restaurant, it wouldn\u2019t take you long to notice that different people communicate love in different ways. You only need to look at your past relationships and you\u2019ll be able to spot which partner preferred lots of intimate contact, and which preferred being complimented regularly.<\/p>\n Love languages are just someone\u2019s preferred way of receiving love. It\u2019s what makes them feel appreciated and acts as an affirmation of their partner\u2019s affections. It\u2019s been suggested that understanding your partner\u2019s preferred love language, and vice-versa, can not only improve empathy and intimacy, but lead to a more meaningful relationship overall.<\/p>\n According to the theory, there are 5 key types of love languages that we experience. Each of us can experience warmth for our partner from them, but the love languages suggest that we ultimately have one language that we prefer above the others.<\/p>\n Below we\u2019ve delved into the five core love languages, and what the types of love languages mean:<\/p>\n Does your heart skip a beat when your partner says I love you? Does an out of the blue compliment make your day and leave you beaming? People who prefer this love language enjoy frequent compliments, verbal and written expressions of love, and positive acknowledgement of their actions. Verbal or written communication is the key to their hearts.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s some examples of ways in which words of affirmation might be used:<\/strong><\/p>\n Often considered the most common love language, those who favour this want to actively spend time with their partner. This doesn\u2019t mean simply being in the room with them. They desire active listening, eye contact in conversation, and meaningful shared activities without any distractions. They want their partner to be with them in the moment instead of scrolling Twitter. And honestly, who wouldn\u2019t?<\/p>\n Quality time might be your preferred love language if:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n The love language of gifts doesn\u2019t necessarily mean you like being showered with presents at all times; it\u2019s far more nuanced than that. For someone who interprets love through gifts, the giving of a present acts as a visual symbol of their partner\u2019s love. It\u2019s not the monetary value that matters, however, rather the meaning behind it. They appreciate the careful gift selection and the giving process, enjoying gifts that are physical but meaningful.<\/p>\n Below are some examples of expressing love through gifting:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s often the little things in life that people really appreciate, like going out of your way to make your partner\u2019s life easier by making their morning coffee, favourite lunch, or bringing them food when sick. Doing chores unasked or treating them without prompting are all things that mean the most to those that favour this language. They appreciate you showing your love through actions rather than words.<\/p>\n Here are some instances of acts of service:<\/strong><\/p>\n The simplest of all the love language types, touch is as simple as hugging, holding hands, and snuggling under a blanket on the couch after a long day \u2013 and yes, it does also include sex, stop sniggering in the back there. For people who prefer this language, consensual touch serves as a powerful emotional connector, one that is the most important for them.<\/p>\n Your love language might be physical touch if:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n As you can see, the five different love languages leave a lot of room for people to show affection to one another. But there are a few that see a wider appreciation than others.<\/p>\n You might be surprised to find out that studies conducted under the theory found that words of affirmation and quality time tended to be the most appreciated form of love language. This just goes to show that, while physical affection, gifts, and the little things are nice, actually communicating with and being around your partner are what matter the most in many relationships.<\/p>\n That being said, the type of love language someone prefers often comes down to gender and cultural norms. For example, different love languages are preferred in the east compared to the west, where public compliments and displays of affection are less common.<\/p>\n So, now we\u2019ve covered what are the five love languages, are you curious to find out what yours is?<\/p>\n There are many ways that you can decipher your love language, including visiting the official 5 love languages website<\/a>. You could also take one of the numerous quizzes available online or pick up one of the many books on the subject.<\/p>\n Of course, you could also sit down and think about how you like to be shown affection, which might help you decide which one you prefer. Or failing that, try experiencing them all and see which one you prefer.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to note that love is subjective, and your preferred way of expressing and receiving love might not fit neatly into one of these categories. Chances are you might resonate with more than one love language, and the same goes for your partner!<\/p>\n If you want to put the love languages theory into practice in your romantic life, here are a few suggestions on how to compliment your partner\u2019s specific love language.<\/p>\n Compliment your partner often, especially when you notice good things about them or cool things they do. If you find that you’re being critical, make sure it\u2019s constructive criticism so they know you’re not just being mean.<\/p>\n Try to make intentional space in your schedule, letting you fit simple things in regularly once or twice a week and leaving more time for adventurous activities once or twice a month. You should also put your phone away during conversations or personal time, so you\u2019re not distracted.<\/p>\n Do little things for your partner as and when you can. Making their morning coffee with yours, or breakfast in bed as a treat, will no doubt be appreciated. But don\u2019t always just do things for the sake of doing them. Often, asking what they need help with can be just as important.<\/p>\n Note down in your calendar when all your special occasions are. Your anniversary, their birthday – knowing when these events are will give you plenty of time to find the perfect gift for them. There\u2019s also no harm in buying \u2018just because\u2019 gifts, especially if you spot something you know they\u2019ll love.<\/p>\n If you know your partner really cares about being hugged and kissed, then all you need to do is make sure you give them one when you see them. Cuddling, holding hands, or\u2026 whatever you like to get up to in the bedroom, all of these are fun ways to show affection.<\/p>\n Just remember, while it might be exciting and beneficial to try out aspects of this theory, the 5 love languages is just that: a theory. Leaning too hard into it could cause unnecessary strain on your relationship by putting pressure on yourself or your partner.<\/p>\n More importantly, finding yours and your partner’s love languages is no substitute for fixing genuine relationship problems. If you want to experiment with the 5 love languages, applying them little but often is fine, just don\u2019t go overboard.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re looking to show appreciation for your partner this Valentine\u2019s Day, or you\u2019re looking for that ideal gift to surprise them with, we\u2019ve a wide selection of brilliant gifts<\/a>\u00a0over on the thortful store. 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What are love languages?<\/h2>\n
What are the five love languages?<\/h2>\n
Words of affirmation<\/h3>\n
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Quality time<\/h3>\n
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Gifts<\/h3>\n
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Acts of service<\/h3>\n
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Physical touch<\/h3>\n
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What are the most common love language types?<\/h2>\n
How to find your love language<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Tips for dating other love languages<\/h2>\n
Word of affirmation<\/h3>\n
Quality time<\/h3>\n
Acts of service<\/h3>\n
Gifts<\/h3>\n
Touch<\/h3>\n